“Beauty of a woman is in her obedience” - unknown Japanese movie.
I came across the picture on my profile a few months ago on the internet.
I was really drawn to it because of its everyday casualness. No fetish gear, no dungeon, no "play". Just a quiet day at home doing normal everyday things - except that she is wearing steel cuffs attached by chain to a steel collar around her neck. She just accepts that being his submissive is a normal, everyday part of their relationship. This, to me, is what a real D/s lifestyle relationship is about.
I am especially interested in the mental aspect of this lifestyle as I see it as the most effective form of domination (and submission), one that reaches deep into your conscious and subconscious being. I believe that such domination has a more lasting and stronger effect in the mindset of a submissive.
Mental, psychological and emotional scars cut so much deeper than the temporary pain and superficial markings of corporal punishment.
I am interested in a submissive woman who needs to be dominated and controlled intellectually, emotionally, psychologically and physically. The emphasis on the first three, and the physical domination as a mean to support and facilitate. Because of this I am really into some of the activities you are interested in like chastity, orgasm denial, obedience, control etc.
I am looking for a deeper relationship, one in which D/s will be a fundamental part of it but not the only one, as multiple pillars are needed to sustain all meaningful connection.
